Four kinds of agencies where you can meet a Russian bride
A.Sites where you pay for each letter "delivered to a girl"
The expensive and doubtful way to meet Russian brides.
Men are told by these agencies that Russian ladies do not have Internet at home, so the Russian girls have to come to the office to read their letters. Men can buy their contact information- postal address and name with surname. But as postal mail goes very slow men have to use the services of these agencies and pay for each letter "delivered to her" and her replies.
We live in XXI century and Russia is a modern country, so where do they find so many women who do not have Internet at work or at home, or who can't go to Internet cafe? Yes, about 8 years ago, only 20 percent of women had access to Internet and had email addresses. All others have to come to the agencies to write and read letteres. But 8 years passed since then and the situation has changed rather radically. Very strange!
B.Sites where emails of Russian ladies are sold
The sites that sell Russian women's emails is better ones. But if you want to make it an honest business, it is sooooooooo hard to support!! (About 2 years ago I tried to make one of my sites to sell the Russian ladies' emails. It was awful!.
The girls manage to change their email addresses once in 2 months, with previous one blocked or just not answering. The girls do not always tell us about this on time.
It is extremely hard to catch scammers (not all of them have the same ip addresses so that you can block them by this). This kind of service doesn't give to administrators enough instruments to find out if a girls is a scammer!
The third problem is that men can't check if their letter reached the addressee. Yes, you can sell the ladies' email addresses but you can't make them answer men! A girl can loose interest (yesterday she had a big row with her boyfriend and applied to some marriage agency, today, she is in love with him again) or she can just not like the man who has written to her. The girls are not goods, they are free, they choose themselves whether to answer you or not.
The next problem is that some Russian women who registered on the site manage to find a man whom they want to see as their partner in life very very quickly (it can be one or two weeks). They register, two weeks of communication with different men and then they delete themselves from the site as they found their the only one and want to try to build the relationship with him. On the subscription site it is all right, she deleted her self and the next day the men see that she is deleted and not interested any more. But if they bought her email, why she has disappered, they have nobody to ask. To say nothing, about many agencies that prefer not to disactivate such women's profile even after she asked to delete herself. (If this profile brings you about 100 usd a day, will you want to kill this hen, who lay gold eggs?).
C.Free sites
I am not against free sites for international and usual dating. If people can support and develop the business by making advertising on the pages of the site then it is all right. But usually these sites have the following problems:
1. They very rarely can give full time support to the site, and scammers manage to register and send many messages before they are deleted. It is if they are deleted. We worked for 3 years thinking about it before we did our multi-level anti-scam protection that helps sort out good girls from scammers.
2. The next problem is that women are not protected there from new kind of Nigerian scammers , that work with women and scam women a lot as if they were American men.
3. We have on the site psychological testing, online translator, I do not understand how it can be provided on the free dating sites. And in my opinion, it is easy to pay 39 usd for a year than to have free dating, and then come to Russia ( pay 3000 usd for the trip) and see that the girl is not compatible with you. This kind of site usually can provide you with basic dating. If you are ready to risk it, it is up to you.
D.Subscription sites
This site is a subscription site. It means that you register and after you pay you have full access to the system. You can write to any girl that is in the gallery, the girls answer you to your mailbox on the site. You have different ways to show your interest to the girls of your choice. They have this possibility also. The Russian women do not pay on this site, they become gold after we check their profile and activate it. If you like the girl, and she likes you, then you can choose to exchange by personal email and communicate there or you can choose to use the site further to communicate (some couples prefer as the site has free online translator). You can at any moment hide your profile - then only the girls whom you have written will see your profile, all others won't see you in the gallery.
This kind of sites has problems also.
1. The main problem is that some men prefer to have slow approach - they send numerous winks to each girl that caught their interest, then they send her postcards, then begin the attack with ice-break. But to 20 such letter girls get tired from these signs of attention but without result and delete themselves from the site (especially if men try to worry the girls into answering them by such means.
2. The second problem is that some men register and wait for "beautiful Russian young girls to write to them. But then they become disillusioned: (we thouroughly clear the site from scammers, so the "girls" with great photos writing to all men from 20 to 80 do not operate here) the men have letters but not from those Russian models they want, sometimes they have children, sometimes they have not the age they want and so on. It is real girls and we can't make the girl if she is beautiful and 25 to write to men up to 55. She is free. If a man wants it, he needs to work himself, to choose, to write.
3. We have no control about the girls. We can also delete them if they act not in a proper way , but that's all. A girl can come to the site today, then in 2 months, then come very often, they again disappear for some time. We can even phone to them and ask to answer the letters ,but they have for example winter, and it gets on their nerves, they feel dark, cold and do not think about any relationship and can't hope for anything, but then the spring comes and the mood changes and she is full of hopes and plans comes to the site each day and only then finds somebody.
4. This kind of service is good for russian brides who can come often to Internet, to the site, then they are in the first pages of the search and have many letters, but others who register and wait for notification about new letters to them can meet disappointment. They do not have letters.
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