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Turkish Brides

Turkish Brides

Turkish brides — emancipated but modest women

Today, when many Western men simply do not have time to date, in reality, they take a decision to find their love online, on the pages of an internet marriage agency. Depending on the preferences of a man, he can meet there a bride from any country, including Turkey. Turkish mail order brides are supposed to be very attractive ladies through their beautiful faces and rich silky hair. Thus, men from the USA and Europe, often pay attention to these cure females. You can also meet your wonderful Turkish mail-order bride, but you should remember about some peculiarities of this date — read about them in this review on Turkish women.

 

Meet modern Turkish women

Modern Turkish women are not very different from those of the rest of the world. They like to take care of themselves, have fun, go shopping, etc. They like doing activities like any other girl. They can also go out in nightclubs, but generally, they only go out in a group of girls and are not always open to the discussion with unknown men. In a nutshell, Turkish girls do exactly the same activities as a Western woman. She can go to the restaurant with her friends, go to the cinema, etc. They do not deprive themselves of the good things of life and have fun. However, since the sexual revolution has not really taken place in the country, they are still struggling at this level.

Educated Turkish women

The first thing to remember once and for all — Turkey is a secular state. It is almost Europe, but still with Asian features. Wealth and education are the most important indicators of status in Turkey. University education for Turki women is the minimum threshold for access to the upper strata of society, regardless of its actual wealth. Earlier, the upper layers of society were represented by the military and bureaucratic elite of the Ottoman Empire, now the "focus of power" has clearly shifted towards successful doctors, businessmen, and politicians, as well as high-level officials. At the same time, the “westernization” of the urban upper class is presented, most of whose representatives, especially Turkish women from rich families know at least one foreign language, are well acquainted with world culture and have close contact with foreign business, cultural and political circles. Most high-income Turks prefer the western style of clothing, closely monitor fashion trends, try to live in their apartments and have a car and an expensive telephone, as indispensable attributes of wealth and success. Also, the craving for European literature and music, theatrical and artistic life is clearly visible. In general, they are not much different from other rich people.

 

Turkey wives and their role

You should remember about some curious things about Turkish wives from different parts of this country to be ready for some possible surprises. The western part of Turkey is more European and there were slightly different relations between the spouses. When a woman gets married, more often than not, her husband always obeys her (!) and does as she needs. Here it is considered a quite ordinary phenomenon when a Turkish wife constantly scolds her husband, expressing all his claims to him. Turkish husband must work. Does his work bring a little money? Then he has to find the second, third and so on. The society will support her here, because the husband, marrying her, took upon himself the whole responsibility, so that the family was provided. And the Turkish woman always puts the material aspect in the first place. It is the truth, and Turkish brides might not agree to date a man (even if he is from the USA) if he does not make good money.

Turkish women are a bit selfish and, for obvious reasons, want certain things from life — a decent and more or less secure life and guarantees of their peace in old age. As soon as a Turkish woman got married and if she gave birth to a child, then she becomes the queen of the situation; she can do anything within the family and she has the right to demand everything that, in her opinion, the husband must do. Surely, first of all, he must provide her financially and solve all issues related to the improvement of the family. The Turkish woman in the family often eliminates many questions and problems, putting everything on her husband.

 

It is true that Turkish females have no rights?

In the press and on television, for some of their purposes, they created a well-established image of a Muslim woman — a sort of an obeying female that walks along the street behind her husband and does not dare to speak loudly in his presence. Since the Turkish women are also Muslim, this image automatically spread to them. It may be that in some particular families there are similar relations between husband and wife, but this is far from the norm. Yes, Turkish women have certain restrictions on their behavior compared to men, but not in order to limit their rights, but to protect themselves. Women in Turkey have a very different style and standard of living — depending on the region in which they live. At the state level, the rights of women and men in Turkey are equal. Nobody locks Turkish women at home and does not limit freedom. Despite the patriarchal way that is visible to an outsider, according to the true state of things, a woman is respected there. The Turks came from nomadic war tribes, where a woman was assigned first the main position, and then equal. Therefore, everyone needs to unanimously forget stories about harems and humiliated women; this is very far from the truth and the actual state of things.

If someone thinks that the Turkish women are silent creatures without the right to vote, then he is very mistaken. Turkish women are actively involved in family budget planning and major purchases. They plan family leisure, trips to the sea and abroad. Quite often, you can hear phrases from the Turks, such as “the wife did not allow me to buy a gym membership”, “the wife did not allow me to go to the match, she said that I was insolent”, “I’ll ask my wife if I can go or not.”

Turkish wives respect themselves and demand respect from others. Turkish women are never silent if they feel that they are being treated unfairly or disrespectfully. They are very straightforward and instantly respond to those, who offend them. Moreover, they don’t care who is insulted: a stranger or a childhood friend. In addition, they often go to demonstrations and assert their rights, no worse than men.

 

How do modern Turkish girls look like?

Turkish women in big cities dress in European style. It is even difficult to determine where the tourists are and where the local ladies are if you decide once to visit this country. Nevertheless, on the streets of the city, you can see quite a lot of women with their heads covered. Many of these females are residents of rural areas or elderly women, for them, a headscarf is a traditional headdress, and this has nothing to do with religious conservatism.

However, young Turkish girl will always prefer to follow the latest fashion trends in everything except the length of the skirts, but this barrier, as it turned out, can be circumvented. Their scarf is always precisely matched to the color of an outfit. In addition, there is a fashion for how scarves should be tied this season. A woman will always remain a woman!

Turkish women never do tragedy from the gained pounds and do not exhaust themselves with physical activity. They love themselves with all their shortcomings and are in no hurry to get rid of them. In general, these ladies have a very high opinion of them, and, in fact, consider they the best and most beautiful.

A lot of Turkish women work. When a woman becomes a Turkish wife and gives birth to a baby, she can hire babysitters, give a child to kindergarten or leave kids to grandmothers. Turkish women value their careers and social status very much. They visit many relatives, meet with friends, and travel to shopping centers, to nature. As a rule, the program of events is scheduled for several weeks in advance. Once or twice a week they go in groups to the market. This is a fascinating event that can last up to three hours at a leisurely pace. Many attend free municipal courses, for example, the Koran courses, foreign languages, weaving, embroidery, sewing, making jewelry and much more.

However, with this entire “free” image, women communicate with women only. Islamic tradition believes that a man can only feel sexually attracted to a female. Therefore, in the mind of a Muslim Turk, especially the older generation, it simply does not fit the idea that there can be any other relationship between a man and a woman: colleagues at work or study, just friendly.

In addition, it is indecent for a woman to drink alcohol in public places, smoke on the go, laugh out loud and behave too familiarly with other men. All these rules may vary depending on the environment and education of women.    

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Turkish women and traditions of the country

Traditionally, Turkish men and women play very different roles in the family. Typically, a Turkish family is characterized by “male dominance,” respect for elders and women. The father or the oldest man in the family is considered the head of the whole family, and his instructions are usually not discussed. However, a man bears a very big burden — he ensures the well-being of the family (until recently, Turkish women had the right not to work outside the home at all), and represents their family to other relatives, and is even responsible for raising children, although formally it’s simple to do this is not obliged to. Interestingly, until the end of the 20th century, even shopping or the market was a purely male duty!

Nevertheless, the role of women in the Turkish family, despite many myths, is quite simple. Formally, the wife requires respect and complete obedience to her husband, housekeeping and raising children. But, not without reason, the Turks say that “the honor of a man and family depends on the way in which women behave and observe the house”. A Turkish woman, a mother is respected by the younger members of the family along with the head of the clan, but her relationship with the children is warm and unofficial. At the same time, women legally have equal rights to private property and inheritance, as well as education and participation in public life, which many women enjoy with pleasure. Turkish women are considered one of the most emancipated females. Younger girls are not prohibited anymore to date men from other countries and guys, who are not Muslims.

 

Turkish brides change old traditions

In Turkey, largely living according to Muslim traditions, it is customary that a man certainly provides for his family, so that his wife may not work. The Turkish man perfectly understands that it is unlikely that a Turkish woman would agree to wait for long believing in the prospects of a young man who in the distant and troubled future could suddenly get rich. This has its own wisdom, which helps to avoid conflicts in the future, at least on this topic. Obviously, a man standing firmly on his feet is more ready for marriage and for taking responsibility for his future wife. In Turkey, it is the norm to get married when a man is under 30, and the girl is 18 and even younger. However, some old traditions connected with a Turkish girl for marriage do exist. Here they are:

  1. The future wife must be a virgin (if the Turks are young), for older couples (if the woman is divorced) of course, it is not necessary to be a virgin.

  2. The future wife should in no way compromise herself.

  3. The future Turkish wife must show her morality, religiosity and complete readiness to follow traditions. It is believed that it is almost impossible for a foreigner to cope with this, but in reality, everything is easier: modern life makes corrections.

In addition to the main type of marriage, in Turkey, there are three more varieties of marriage. The first of these allows the younger single brother to marry the widow of his older blood brother. The second type of Turkish marriage allows relatives to marry. The third type is a double wedding when the groom’s sister marries the bride’s brother. To avoid all these traditional headaches, many young women from this country decide to become Turkish mail order brides and start seeking single men in other countries, using for it online dating sites and special international marriage agencies.

 

How to date your Turkish bride online: tips and recommendations

In Turkey, premarital relations between a man and a woman are prohibited, and the notorious “civil marriages” are not welcome. However, there are Turkish brides who are much more open about relationships between men and women.

Many people confuse the Turks with Arabs or other Muslims. Thus, dating an Algerian girl, flirting with a Moroccan lady or an attempt to seduce a Tunisian female will be totally different from what will have to be done with a Turkish woman. They are not the same countries or the same culture. Never tell a Turkish bride that she is Arab for example.

How to attract a girl from Turkey?

There are not really thousands of ways to flirt with a Turkish girl. Do not hesitate to call pretty Turkish brides to chat with you and send them letters, but do it in a very elegant and respectful way, because many Turks do not hesitate to approach women in a totally stupid way and they are tired of it.

Even if Turkish girls are regularly harassed, it is quite possible for you to get out of the game and have chances with them. For this, here are some tips:

  • Chatting with a live webcam, look neat;
  • Be polite. Good manners, kindness, and elegance are appreciated;
  • Be respectful. You must give it the impression that this chat is important to you.
  • English is not an official language in Turkey but is known there. So use that wisely.

The mistakes not to make

Love and sexuality remain a taboo in Turkish culture. Turkish ladies like to talk to each other, about family, sex, children, relationship, but do not dare talk about it with them being “too opened”. Turkish women know that sexuality is important to men, but love and fidelity are qualities they look for in a man. He must not go elsewhere because it would be considered a supreme insult to her.

 

Marriage with a Turkish bride

If you are eager to marry one of those beautiful Turkish brides, who, being in search of a foreign husband, register in online marriage agencies, you have to respect the customs, culture, and traditions of the girl's family. It is important to understand that you should be appreciated by your family if you want to marry a Turkish woman. It is certainly possible to have a Turkish wife without the consent of her family, but that would be tantamount to social suicide for her and your future wife might suffer in the future. You have to have a pure heart and be 100% devoted to your family. The sign of this fidelity is proof that they have found the ideal man for their daughter. Before you think about joining a Turkish life, first make contact with her family (it can be done now as most Turkish people have Internet at home). If her family is a practitioner, then you will need time to earn their trust. If your future Turkish wife grew up in Europe or North America, then things may be easier. If she grew up with Western education, then it is likely to be less traditional.

 

Where can you meet girls from Turkey?

You can go to Turkey — there are very good places to meet pretty Turkish women of any age. The easiest places to meet open girls are big cities. There, the culture is strongly westernized and the women are freer than in the traditional villages. You can also visit tourist resorts or all-inclusive hotels. Generally, girls will let go much more when they are in a festive atmosphere. If you want to meet a Turkish bride (has Turkish origin) but lives in Europe, then things will be more difficult. Generally, they are mixed with the rest of the population and there is no specific place to meet them. Therefore, the best way to meet beautiful and attractive Turkish brides is to find a reliable marriage agency online or a very good dating site.

Meet Turkish women on a dating site

To easily meet cute Turkey bride, find a specialized dating site. Turkish brides care available there 24/7, and you can contact several girlfriends at the same time. You can also use this site to prepare a future trip to Turkey. The name of the site might suggest that you will only find women for a Muslim wedding. There will be women looking for a Turkish bridal, but also more liberal Turkish girls. If you want something serious or less serious, you can find what you want. There are very few Turkish scams online, but you should be aware of them and support conversation with honest Turkish brides, those, who do now start asking from money from the very beginning of your online dating.

 

The way to a Turkish happiness

To conclude, it is not so easy to flirt with a Turkish woman. It will take patience and above all, do not hope to conquer the conquests. Turkish brides are usually quite conservative and will think twice before considering a relationship without a future. Take your time, finding love is not something that should be taken lightly. Better to stay a long-time single than to be with a bad person. However, when you have found love with a Turkish girl, then she will be sincere and you can live a great relationship with your girlfriend, future wife, and fist of all, she will be the most devoted mother of your children and honest wife.